Success on Your Terms

What pushes you to have the energy to drive for what you want and to have the vision to do what you do? Is it because you prefer to do things on your own without others telling you what to do or how to do things? “Success is about understanding what drives you and tapping into your inner strengths.”- U.S. Congressman Rush Holt

Success is a personal issue for each of us. It exists so that each of us can achieve that specific goal(s) we want when and how we want to complete them. Tom Hopkins, an American Motivator, stated, “Success is the continuous journey towards the achievement of predetermined worthwhile goals.”

According to Stanford University, Harvard University, and the Carnegie Institute of Technology, “Eighty-five percent of success depends on your people skills.” How well you use these skills is what makes you successful in your relationship with others. Beyond this, these skills can serve you well to the extent of helping you get promoted to the specific position you want and helps you become a great leader.

Since I consult with those who are introverts and executives, I want each of them to ask themselves what success means to them. This is the slant I want my clients to go after, someone else’s meaning for what they should do. Ask yourself this very same question: “What does success mean for me?” Answer in your own words of what you want, not someone else’s version of what you should or need to do.

Set your goals for your success and achieve them your way. Breakdown the steps into bite size pieces whether you do so every day, every week, every month, or even every quarter (3 months).

Whatever you set up for yourself, do yourself a big favor and add a challenge in it for you to (1) Use your strengths, and not overuse them, and (2) add your emotional connection. Both of these together will help you stay on track and accomplish your goal(s), instead of giving up.

When you know what you will get out of it when you accomplish what you want it help you become the success you want to be. As much as possible, the action steps you take can go beyond your expectations. This makes your success better since you know how far you can stretch beyond your limitations, and accomplish your goal(s) on your own terms.

The above is just a guide to help you start to move forward in accomplishing your success in goal setting whether you are completing something on a personal basis, or completing a work task/project.

Good luck in being a Success on Your Own Terms.

Summary: What does success mean to you? By not having your own definition of success, there’s a high probability that you’re pursuing what someone else wants you to do. Start drafting your own plan for Success on Your Own Terms.

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Keeping Your Strengths in Check

You already know your strengths, and possibly your weaknesses.

Knowing that: Talent + Knowledge + Skill = Strength

What are you doing to keep your strengths in-check so they do not move over onto the weakness side? Since overusing your strengths is a sign to derail your career, begin to ask for feedback and be open to what others tell you. Without any consequences, sit down with your employees, for example, and ask them to be honest and ask for their thoughts, ideas and opinions of where they see the organization going, what changes they would make if they were in a leadership position, give them decision-making responsibilities, discuss challenges and problem-solving with their co-workers. This results in empowering your employees to create and produce great/extraordinary/remarkable results.

As a leader, go out onto the floor and talk with a few of your employees daily. Granted, this is the “lead-by-walking” technique, and it let’s your employees know who you are and be able to interact with them. get to know how your organization actually works. And remember to think: What’s working, what’s not working, and what’s working really well?

This tells you what changes you may need to make with your existing people and processes. Have your employees involved in some of the changes you want to make. If you do not get their buy-in, the changes will either not happen, or you may not get the results you expect.

Be more aware of yourself and of those around you. Give others the credit they deserve for their ideas, thoughts and opinions. You just might be surprised to see the results you get.

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Leaders Overusing their Strengths

Anyone who has ever driven a car knows blind spots are potentially lethal. This holds true in leading business organizations as well as on the road. Are you aware of your strengths and how to use them to your advantage without overusing them?

For the last decade or so, leaders have been encouraged to focus on developing their strengths rather than gravitating to working on their weaknesses. We’ve all heard “Play to your strengths.” Conventional wisdom in leadership says to capitalize on your strengths. Taken too far, your strengths can become your weaknesses.

You may already know your strengths and possibly all of your weaknesses. Are you using your strengths to your advantage? There are times that when it comes to using your strengths, too much of a good thing may not be a good thing after all. Your flaws are often the mirror-image of your strengths.

There’s such a thing as relying too much on strength. Don’t be satisfied with the strengths you’ve always had. Keep expanding your horizons. Sometimes you can do that with your selection of team members, but also look for opportunities to grow your own abilities. Many leaders underestimate their strengths, and as a result are unaware that they are overdoing it. It is hard to spot strengths you are overdoing.

Daniel Goleman, the author of Emotional Intelligence, lists several blind spots from 42 successful executives studied by Robert E. Kaplan, who let us know about overusing your strengths can turn into your weaknesses. This list includes the following:

Blind Ambition- Winning at all costs
Unrealistic Goals- Setting overly ambitious, unattainable goals for your group or organization
Relentless Striving- Compulsively hardworking at the expense of all else
Drives Others- Pushes other people too hard, and burning them out
Power Hungry- Seeks power for their own interests, rather than the organization’s
Insatiable need for recognition- Addicted to glory; takes credit for others’ efforts and puts the blame on them for mistakes
Preoccupation with Appearances- Needs to look good at all costs
Need to seem Perfect- Engaged by or rejects criticism, even if realistic

Realize that hidden in your weaknesses are your strengths and that each of your strengths has a corresponding weakness.

When it comes to making major mistakes, it is not your weaknesses that get you in trouble, it is your strengths.

Most people ignore their weaknesses when they focus on their strengths. Zenger and Folkman call serious weaknesses as “fatal flaws”.

No matter how hard you work on certain weaknesses, chances are you’ll make only marginal progress. Do not waste too much time overcoming your flaws. It is better to focus on what you do best and surround yourself with people who have complementary strengths.

Strengths in combination are far more powerful than any one alone.

People can and do behave inappropriately and they do things to excess.

Most people ignore their weaknesses when they focus on their strengths.

Thirty-three percent of 700 leaders admitted that they blamed other people for their own mistakes.

Constantly ask questions on how you can get better as a leader. Be open and challenge others to tell they think you want to hear, but to be honest in telling you how things really are. Feedback on leadership positives, and not just the negatives, will help leaders become more aware of the impact of their strengths.

Write out your list of strengths. Identify how your strengths would look in its healthy and overused levels. Then determine at what point you are using each of your strengths the best way you can without overusing them.

Identify 3-5 ways you pay too much attention on getting short-term results, & doesn’t pay enough on strategy. Essentially, turn the dial down on the overuse side & turn it up on the underuse side- as Robert E. Kaplan states.

Go beyond the basics and don’t sugar-coat what you really want others to tell you. Those leaders who have “YES” men and women around them are not going to understand what is really going on with the organization or with them. This is the only way to find out and realize the blind spots, fatal flaws, habits and weaknesses you have. If you don’t accept true feedback from others, you most likely are on the edge of where your leadership ends.

“Unless you’re willing to let go of yourself as you currently are,
you cannot become the great leader you expect to be.”

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Coloring Outside the Lines of Your Leadership

“If you want an interesting party sometime, combine cocktails and a fresh box of crayons for everyone.” -Robert Fulghum

Did You Know Successful People Are Uncomfortable Most Of The Time?

As a child, you were told to color inside the lines. This is where everyone does the same thing with different colors. If you drew outside the lines, you were reprimanded for doing so. As an adult, coloring within the lines is doing what everyone else does. Coloring outside the lines, you show creativity and innovativeness that several companies and organizations like, but most do not.

For many, being creative and innovative is the natural thing to do. For others, being a non-traditionalist is how you perform and get your work done. For the majority of the population, doing things the same way everyone else basically does gets things done is either boring or is frustrating because you cannot break out of that mold.

What exactly do I mean by coloring outside the lines? I am talking about someone who isn’t afraid to be who they are. Coloring outside the lines is similar to thinking outside the box. Think about the career you are in. Is it traditional or non-traditional, and is it really what you want? Can you be creative?

Coloring outside the lines is primarily about creativity with no boundaries. Using your innovative thoughts and ideas and create something extraordinary.  Challenge yourself to step outside your comfort zone and try something different from the usual. If you’re like most people, that’s the way you’d color today. And if you’re like most business people, you’re doing today what you’ve been doing for a long time.

How many times have you have heard in your business, “that’s not how it’s done,” “you’re doing it wrong,” or “that won’t work?” Imagine a group of your employees each being given a line drawing to color. The employees take up the crayons and go about coloring their picture – some with great skill and precision – keeping the crayon marks just inside the lines, and using the colors to perfectly match the reality the manager had in mind. In the group there may be one or two who ignore the lines altogether. Discouraged by the manager, they are not following directions – not coloring within the lines!

You need to dare to be comfortable being uncomfortable to be truly successful. Success is not a one-time deal that you accomplish and then you are done. Success is not a destination that you reach and then you are done. It is a continuous journey and successful people understand this principle. Being uncomfortable is the idea of taking risks outside the ordinary.

Leaders with great innovative creativity need to shift gears and use different thinking habits. A Different set of repertoire leadership skills helps identify roadblocks that may keep us from being creative in producing extraordinary results.

Sometimes leading is using color in new ways just to see what you can find with a new approach. Go beyond your ordinary thoughts, and produce your own great creative results. Leaders recognize that it is the picture that is important, not the lines.

Sometimes you need to look beyond the obvious in order to find other way to solve a difficult challenge especially if the traditional ones are not giving you what you want. Leadership is not always easy and it inevitably will bring uncomfortable moments.

Coloring outside the lines is about getting outside of your comfort zone to feel comfortable doing things your way different than you have before. Great leaders are comfortable making others uncomfortable for a vision of a greater good. They understand that keeping others happy perpetuates the status quo. And they’re willing to risk being liked for being extraordinary.

A lot of people will do everything possible to avoid situations that will put them in an uncomfortable position. Avoiding these situations decreases the chance to make a change, get better results, and grow. You will never see the changes you’re looking for by sticking in your comfort zone! Many leaders who color outside the lines are many thought leaders and trailblazers who look at things in non-traditional and in unconventional ways. They get things accomplished beyond their expectations.

Since the only thing that typically is constant is change, leaders need to look carefully how change is not just uncomfortable, it is also a shift in having the confidence that once a plan is implemented, can they sustain it.

Creative Thinking

Unleash your spark of creativity and innovation that can help you with problem-solving. Your comfort zone is where you get your current results. If you want different results, new or better results, you have to get out of your zone and do something different.

For many successful people, they are always striving to get to the next level that it gets to be uncomfortable during those times because you are always growing personally &/or professionally. This goes along with the fact that they learn something new all the time. Also, by being in this position, they are on top of their game.

To get to the next level of success, a person must continually leave their comfort zone (status quo, habits, limiting beliefs, knowledge base, skill level, etc.) and try new activities, learn new things, meet new people, take reasonable risks, and seize opportunities. They must stretch.

Do yourself a favor and try to get out of your comfort zone and learn new skills that will help you be on top of your game and help you in the next level of your leadership. Are there some areas you want to learn about but were afraid to try? Look for yourself what areas may help move you to the next level of your success. Identify 3-5 areas and choose one to try. After that one, try another. See how it might be a little much for you, and then see how much you can benefit from it.

After your master being uncomfortable, you become comfortable with yourself and the leadership that is unique to you. Success begins outside your comfort zone, but it doesn’t have to be terrifying…just un-comfortable.

Comfort equals accepting the status quo. If you don’t aspire to anything more, then go ahead and be comfortable.

In your company, who gets things done faster—the person who plays strictly by the rules, or the one who knows not only how to play by the rules but how to play the chain of command as well? Ask yourself: “Where are the lines in your picture? How does your leadership color outside the lines?”

“Take comfort in being uncomfortable about being comfortable” – Art Petty

Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.
Brian Tracy

“Never invest in any idea you can’t illustrate with a crayon.” -Peter Lynch

 

 

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What Makes A Great Leader? – In Search of Unconventional Leadership Wisdom

Sitting in the Ivory Tower is not for unconventional leaders who sometimes deviate from their original roadmap. They have unconventional thinking and imagination that they use for their organization to succeed. Their unconventional wisdom puts a new spin on leadership. A new model for professional achievement is needed in our 21st Century economy. It requires discarding many of our traditional notions about how to succeed.

Here are seven tips to What Makes a Great Leader:

1. See the big picture: Great leaders are able to see the big picture and make sure that their entire company sees it as well. This includes having employees knowing the company’s vision and long-term outlook.

The idea of “seeing the big picture” gives clarity and direction in knowing where you are leading your company and your employees. This requires the fact that your actions must be aligned with your business goals.

2. Make sound decisions: An essential requirement needs to be effective leaders who have very good decision making skills, even the unconventional leaders. This is to ensure that strategically sound decisions are made to result in positive outcomes for the company. Unconventional leaders have the confidence and know how to take risks in their decisions and making them pay off.

3. Keep cool under pressure: A great leader never lets their team see them sweat. Ranting and raving is not a sign of even a good manager. In times of crisis, employees typically look to their company leader to remain calm under pressure and handle the situation.

An unconventional leader is going to respond to situations in a different manner than conventional leaders. From what I have observed, when it comes to situations where leaders react or respond to situations, they handle the current situation and the crisis ends with nothing gained except how a situation was handled at that moment. On the other hand, when an unconventional leader handles the same situation, they deal with the situation and implement policies and procedures to make sure the situation is not repeated. As a result, the conventional leader and their employees go back to the same management policies and procedures as before the firefighting took place. Where as the unconventional leader and their organization is able to grow from this experience.

These great leaders know how to handle pressure. Having the know how to recognize a pressured situation, control their emotions, and move their company forward is within their toolbox of talents.

4. Know good people skills: Most people want to be effective in their work. Effective unconventional leaders go beyond making sure that their employees are supported. They assist in developing their employees; they inspire their employees by telling them the company’s compelling vision, and then ask the employees to contribute to this vision; they are catalysts with the ability to initiate and lead and manage the company to new directions when it is appropriate to do so; and they use and have all of their employees master their own Emotional Intelligence (self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management). In return, the leader and their employees experience their contributions in improved growth, teamwork, company vision, job satisfaction, and profitability.

In an unconventional organization, the company’s leader, in most cases, give praise to all employees. They would find a way to give all employees recognition for any and every task performed. This way the leader makes everyone feel good about themselves and for working in a company that cares about them.

5. Adapt quickly to new situations: Since change is a constant, unconventional leaders know they need to change their entire organization to reflect new applications for their products and services, and they are able to shift gears quickly in the direction where they take their company and where their company now needs to go. In order to adapt to new situations, the unconventional leader is open to change and to new directions; the unconventional leader embraces new thoughts and ideas. In order to adapt to new situations, new strategies need to be put in place.

6. Keep positive optimism: When you produce positive results, it is due to the positive actions you use and portray. In staying positive and bringing out the best in themselves, unconventional leaders also tap into their employees and employee resources in order to reach their maximum potential from their organization and stay ahead of others.
A great leader encourages their team to perform no matter the odds. The leader is the positive force that keeps everyone motivated to win. As a business leader, your company leadership should include a positive attitude that will affect you and your employees.

Dana Lightman, Ph.D. stated that power optimists are valuable because of the following:

Proactive = Goal Achievers

  • Open-Minded = Innovative Thinkers
  •  Well-Informed = Opportunity Seeking
  • Evolving = Continuous Learners
  •  Resilient = Adaptable Change Agent

This is where unconventional leaders go beyond the basics. They use every one of these values to their full advantage, and then they do it, succeeding in what they want to do.

7. Learn constantly: Besides being fast learners, unconventional leaders are open to continuous learning from a variety of sources, especially from those who have already been in the trenches of leadership. They study leadership which they believe is an essential part of lifelong learning. These other experiences and challenges help maximize their leadership impact.

In summary, many unconventional leaders, who are down-to-earth mavericks, sometimes feel that are reinventing their company in order to be a trail blazer as they bring their unique perspectives to life. It sets the stage for how your company can move forward with thinking and strategizing a little off center from where you are currently. The challenge for the leader is to both implement changes to their organization and work through the above seven tips with their employees.

Follow these seven tips of “What Makes A Great (Unconventional) Leader” and see how your company can do better in its thinking and as a result, gain a competitive edge. As your focus needs to shift slightly with the paradigm shift changes in management so to does your company’s strategies and thoughts of using the talent of your employees for a more productive workplace.

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Powerful Conversations that Yield Powerful Results

All work takes place through conversations and it is through these conversations that you achieve results or not. When you do not achieve results, you often look to the conversations that did not happen or did not go well. Was the conversation challenging enough to be powerful?

Having powerful conversations are key to producing extraordinary results. Your ability to have a powerful conversation demonstrates that you are committed to having a powerful relationship. Extraordinary results are a function of extraordinary relationships.

The old model of leadership was all about having the answers. According to theory, you got to the top by being able to answer the tough questions and came up with compelling answers. In the current model, the leader’s primary role is to initiate conversations that bring out the best thinking of the group and direct those conversations toward a positive outcome.

When you talk, do people listen? Communicating effectively is essential in the business world. It is the first step on the path toward leadership. Telling others what to do is easy compared to engaging them in a process where they are in control and think through solutions to their own challenges.

Powerful Questions

Every day we ask or are asked umpteen questions, usually answered without much thought. They help you function on a day-to-day basis. Occasionally someone will ask a question that make you stop in your tracks. Those are the powerful questions. When a question is compelling and engaging enough, you will do everything possible to answer it.

Think about how powerful your conversations are that impact the bottom line. One of the most effective tools in communication is the ability to ask questions. Being able to ask effective questions is a skill that must be acquired. Skillful questioning is one of the key ingredients of solid and successful relationships, strategic planning, and a significant exchange of information and opinions. Questions that are poorly constructed and weak lead to a poor communication exchange and may cause misunderstanding.

Think about the possibilities that could be generated by asking powerful questions that:

  • Encourage creativity and innovation
  • Change beliefs
  • Focus on possibilities
  • Generate new ideas

How can you frame compelling questions?

  • Listen first- Recognize what is being said and then ask your question.
  • Focus on questions that invite new thinking,  ideas and actions rather than dwelling on past issues
  • What questions will help to gather vital information and facts
  • It’s important to come up with a question that truly engages so that you are in the best frame of mind to creatively tackle the problem/challenge.
  • Positive questions

 Change Happens in Powerful Conversations

 Having open and productive conversations is critical in making sure that change happens as envisioned. Powerful conversations create action that lead to change.

You will know when you have asked a powerful question when others feel empowered, awareness has been raised and more options are created.

Every powerful conversation goes through 3 stages: 

  • Stage 1: A sharing of feelings and beliefs
  • Stage 2 : A discussion about what should be done in terms of discussing specific needs  and wants
  • Stage 3 : Agreement on the specific action steps to be taken and mutual commitments to be kept by both parties

Each powerful conversation can be harnessed productively within any organization.  How and what we communicate impacts the results we can achieve. What are you generating around you when you communicate? Enthusiasm? Innovation? Accountability? Or something else?

Generative leadership communication begins with clearly thinking through what you want to generate in others in both the short and long term. How do you want listeners to feel as a result of what you say?

Begin your powerful conversations by exchanging ideas, expanding your mindset, and experiencing breakthroughs in the results you get. Great leaders communicate their vision with passion, but they don’t pretend to have all the answers. How can you encourage and empower your followers to contribute to the conversation, without their feeling embarrassed or intimidated?

 

 

 

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Influential Leadership Trait

“The task of a leader is to get people from where they are to where they have not been” -Henry Kissinger

There are specific traits of leaders that will prove success and strength of a business. One of those specific traits is that of being an influential leader. How influential are you as a leader? Do others listen and hang onto your every word, or do you just listen to what is said and take action based on that?

Many people have written on what it means to be a leader. Almost everyone identifies influence as the primary characteristic. By definition, this means that leadership and position are two different things. You can have a title, and a position of power. Does this mean you are a leader? Even people without these things can exert influence. To be an effective leader, it is necessary to influence others to support and implement decisions that the leader and group members perceive as necessary. Without influence, leadership does not occur.

Influential Leadership” is the ability of a leader to incite action in others simply through mastering the skills of communication and motivation tailored to individuals. A leader of influence is one who will work to remove the obstacles preventing people from performing effectively.

All leaders can get people to achieve, but influential leaders get people to want to achieve. The influential leader focuses on building constructive attitudes and drawing out valuable talents in others. Many leaders simply do not see themselves as a leader, but as a person who is responsible for creating systematic and lasting change.

Here is what influence through leadership is not:

  • Being pushy, overbearing or intimidating
  • Using bribes to make people do what you want
  • Paying for a service in order to get something you want

Effective Leadership + Planned Analysis = Influential Leadership

Since leadership is the ability to influence others, the following are characteristics of influential leadership behaviors. Influential Leaders create followers who want to follow them as oppose to followers who believe they have to follow. Influential Leaders

  • Demonstrate a certain passion that rallies, motivates, inspires and influences others
  • Assess risk realistically
  • Have an enthusiasm that drives people to accomplish unbelievable things
  • Manage their egos
  • Produce an energy whereby individuals caught up in their influence take action, bond and connect with others and produce
  • Are very good thinkers and analysts
  • Value integrity by consistently being honest, forthright, and ethical by doing what they say they will do. They walk their talk. Followers need to be able to trust the leader, and without trust, influence is impossible.
  • Tough and driving but with a sense of humor
  • Believe in humility by acknowledging that they do not know everything and are open to learn from others.
  • Highly value service
  • Understand the art of listening and engaging in dialogue. They understand the power of good communication.
  • Are aware of their weaknesses and actively find ways to manage them
  • Prepared to let others shine
  • Ask powerful questions and listen to the responses (even when they do not like them)
  • Are realistic about their situation yet determined to succeed
  • Practice reflection by taking the time to become fully aware of their own mental processes such as thoughts, feelings, and reactions to various situations.
  • Focused on the long-term goals of the organization, rather than short-term gains or wins
  • Are not afraid to make decisions that challenge the status quo
  • Demands that others think and use their brains to their full potential  (They work people hard)
  • Prepared to be wrong at times
  • Recognize the skill of modeling and the importance of setting an example for others through their own behavior.
  • Focus on the end goal
  • Practice of self as a barometer to assess what is going on inside themselves and around them in order to respond to their environment. They have figured out what makes themselves tick.

An influential leader’s strength lies in the results created by its practical application. Use your influence in looking at strategies and techniques that identify what is best and most useful to you and your organization in order to achieve your goals. Identify the “keys” to move your organization forward.

You can make the choice to either influence people cohesively or forcefully. Which will get you to keep your employees producing great results, having a low turnover rate, and satisfies your employees to be passionate about what they do?

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Engagement of Extraordinary Leaders

How many leaders love to come to work every day truly passionate about their organization, their vision, values, the people who work for them, and how they see themselves fitting in the organization? The topic of “Employee Engagement” is a struggle for most CEOs. It is unacceptable for leaders to be absent from the connections of the organization and focus on other things outside of the organization.

While many leaders simply blame disengagement of employees, progressive leaders find ways to build a culture to over employee disengagement. The responsibility for productivity and profitability rests on the shoulders of leadership, and so does the responsibility to overcome employee disengagement.

Instead of focusing on employee engagement, let’s look at focusing on the engagement of leaders. Creating employee engagement is just as important to an organization as leadership engagement. This is what drives employee engagement into high or low gear. Depending on how you lead, which one are you?

Leaders try putting yourself in your employee’s shoes. Think for a moment- Do you feel engaged and happy with the work you are doing? Do you enjoy interacting with co-workers, and feel that your leaders are listening to employees? Do you feel appreciated?

Engagement can flourish where leaders have taken active steps to improve it. Engaged employees begins and ends with leaders. Leaders must work hard to create an engaged workforce with these objectives:

  • Align efforts with strategy
  • Empower employees
  • Promote and encourage teamwork and collaboration
  • Help employees grow
  • Develop extraordinary skills and mindset of employees
  • Provide support and recognition when appropriate

Leaders adhering to these will find the more engaged employees are, the more these employees will align themselves with the organization and help improve its bottom line. Engaged employees will take pride in their work, put forth more effort in their daily tasks and perform at higher performance levels.

The key to employee engagement is developing leadership skills in all employees. In order to build an extraordinary organization, you must have great leaders at all levels.

Building Trust

Trust is an essential ingredient in increasing engagement. People do not know how trustworthy you are until you demonstrate it by using trust building behaviors. Some of these include being honest with others, communicating openly with others, showing respect, create transparency (letting others verify what you tell them), admitting when you are wrong), deliver on what you say you will do, clarify expectations, be accountable and responsible, and listening openly to others.

Crystallized Compelling Vision

By ensuring everyone is clear on the goals set, the engagement leader encourages employees to communicate their understanding of the goals before motivating employees in taking the right actions to take to move the process successfully to the next level. This make take place is re-structuring existing strategies or adding more.

Alignment

Engaged employees feel more aligned with their organization and their leaders as they see the connection between what they do and the success of the organization. The effective leader understands that gaining their team’s commitment to the organization increase the team’s performance. This is a reflection of the engaged leader moving their employees and organization in the same direction.

Team Development

Effective leaders understand the potential for significant increases in performance through high performing teams. They make sure all team members are using their strengths to produce great/extraordinary/remarkable results in the work they do. They focus on team members using their maximum potential (critical thinking skills, beliefs and mindset) in terms of being extraordinary.

All of these skills are needed to fully engaged employees. Engagement will be diminished if any employee is missing. The challenge for the leader is to develop skills of employees so they are dependent on each other as well as if someone is missing, another team member can do that job.

Listening

One sign of a good, even a great leader is the ability to listen. This includes being open with others in allowing others to ask questions and in their giving you feedback that does not have a backlash to them. You may not have all the answers to the questions asked of you, so have the person who ask these questions get back to you with the answers they find.

Taking Action

Focusing on what needs to be done, engaged extraordinary leaders sometimes need to take risks to adopt a new framework to not just be successful, but to thrive beyond expectations. They want each team member to understand what they are going to accomplish. If they have any issues with anything, they can discuss them with the leader or first with other co-workers using their critical thinking skills.

The level of employee engagement is a consequence of what their leaders do, leaders want to: Communicate clear expectations by setting clear goals and make sure team members understand what is expected of them. They will be held accountable and responsible for what they do.

Engaged leaders energize their employees as they show how to make changes required reaching the vision they set out to meet. They know how to get their employees involved in working toward their vision with commitment and passion. This is where many good leaders forfeit their change to a legacy of greatness. Engaged leaders establish trust and demonstrate integrity by removing barriers encountered by their teams to accomplish what needs to be done.

By creating an engagement strategy, engaged leaders know how to sustain their leadership effectiveness by interacting with employees and having them give honest feedback without any backlash for what they say. Since leadership engagement generates employee engagement, what shifts can you make to move your employees toward being extraordinary? This in turn takes your existing processes and strategies

A fully engaged leader engages themselves in their vision, values, strategy, culture and the execution of getting these done to accommodate their employees being engaged. As a leader, you must demonstrate your engagement to inspire and motivate your employees to generate great/extraordinary/remarkable results.

Work with your employees in creating their great/extraordinary/remarkable skills and abilities in order to create the breakthrough strategies that keep your organization thriving beyond just surviving.

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Characteristics of a Natural Leader

“Leaders are not made; they are created every moment, every second.”

 Shakespeare once said, “Some men are born great, some achieve greatness and some have greatness thrust upon them.” This is applicable to leaders as well. Some are born leaders, some achieve leadership positions by their hard work and some have leadership position thrust upon them.

Becoming a naturally effective leader does not depend on your ability to copy the behaviors and attitudes of “great leaders”. Naturally effective leaders begin by being themselves. The result is an extraordinary power to lead, achieve and develop. Naturally effective leaders will not all engage in the same behaviors or share the same core competencies.

When we talk about talent we are referring to a person’s natural abilities. Some are naturally smart. Some are naturally athletic. And some people have a natural talent to lead. If you are not comfortable in a leadership position, others will sense it and withhold their full potential until you show your real leadership abilities.

A natural born leader is a person who displays the characteristics and personality traits of a leader. First, they have a vision; second, they work from the point of being effective. Social ability, self-confidence, assertiveness and boldness are all characteristics of natural born leaders.

Natural Effective leaders do not try to be anyone else. They are comfortable being who they are. They seek out people with different natural effectiveness traits. They value the complementary skills and traits of others.  They surround themselves with people whose strengths complement their own.

Vision

They know where they want to go and know how to share their vision to inspire others. These leaders can see where the organization or team needs to go before others do. They have the ability to look at the big picture.

Social Ability

Having natural people skills, natural leaders are typically extroverted outgoing individuals who are very generous, understanding and congenial towards others. They are quick to connect with others. They usually choose a career or job in a position of authority, motivating others and directing teams in successful projects or task assignments.

These types of leaders attract others to work for and with them because they get things done with a minimum amount of stress on others. People want to be on these teams. Give others on your team the opportunity to lead a task or project in order to know their leadership abilities.

Self-Confidence

This characteristic is often evident from an early age in children. They usually come across as “bossy”. Self-confidence is the characteristic of all natural leaders that drive social ability and the courage to take on new risks and challenges.

Assertion Skills

This is where natural leaders urge action where others wait for it to happen. Assertiveness is a necessity for success and to achieve many things using this characteristic. Over-assertiveness can come across as authoritarian. This leader shows their eagerness to take control in different situations and enjoys their role as it is challenging to them.

Being a natural leader involves being able to adjust your style to the skill level and commitment of others in any given situation.

Boldness

Boldness is a sense of adventure that enables leaders to explore new areas and push boundaries. In business, boldness is often what is needed to forge ahead and break new ground. Boldness with assertiveness helps you challenge and take risks.

Natural leadership helps you make use of the other characteristics you have that need to expand your horizon and use to your full potential.  They work from their point of effectiveness. You know how and when to leverage your strengths to accomplish your goals.

Some naturally effective leaders lead through their take charge traits; some lead through their ability to draw people to themselves through charisma; some lead through the strength of patience, taking a calm approach to the vision that engages others to take the time to absorb ideas.

Naturally effective leader’s focuses on achieving goals that will make their vision become a reality. They win the support of their vision by utilizing a style that is appropriate for them. You do not have to plan every tactic of a situation or project. Let others who can articulate your vision well present their views and ideas.

These types of leaders know how they work most efficiently and most effectively. They have learned from both successes and failures. They hone in on their skills and integrate their experiences, skills, competencies and self-awareness into an effective and efficient presence.

Create a culture in which people have access to you. Do not isolate yourself hide from others. They do what makes sense to them, and it works. This is because they have natural strengths to evaluate the capabilities of their organization. Focus on your strengths is more productive than trying to bolster your weaknesses. Trying to improve weaknesses achieves only incremental growth.

When a leader truly knows who they are and embraces their own personal style of being a naturally effective leader, they can envision more and lead others in accomplishing the goals that make that vision a reality. On top of that, they are able to move from ordinary to extraordinary results not just in their employees and organization, but in themselves as well.

All leaders have natural strength and weaknesses in their leadership role. Successful leadership is to be able to adapt your personal style to meet the needs and styles of the people in your team. Most people admire those people who demonstrate the traits of natural leadership. Are you a Natural Effective Leader?

 

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Leadership Challenges for Effective Introvert Leaders

Kathy Daniels appears to be an outgoing powerhouse CEO of a mid-size stockbrokerage firm in Chicago. Little does anyone know is that Kathy is an introvert who takes advantage of using her unique characteristics to demonstrate her self-confidence to her employees and whenever she gives presentations outside her organization? Maybe not a high-powered executive like Microsoft’s Bill Gates, former CEO Brenda Barnes of Sara Lee, or Warren Buffett, Kathy is in with a great group of introverted leaders.

Typically, when people think of leaders, they think of extroverts since they are outgoing, assertive, give speeches and presentations and is someone who has self-confidence. No one thinks of an introvert fitting in as a leader- until recently. Introverts are beginning to get out of their comfort zone and take advantage of the unique characteristics they possess.

Whether you know of an introvert as a “Quiet Leader” or “Quiet Boss”, you need to look at introverts in a different light than you have before. It has been estimated that there are between 40-70% of Fortune 500 companies that are lead by introverted CEOs. Accordingly, during the last several years of the economic downturn, these organizations had a higher productivity level and profit rate than those organizations run by extroverts. “Their leadership success is in part due to their ability to encourage pro-activity from their employees,” says Susan Cain, author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking.

“Outgoing personality traits are often associated with top corporate roles, but new research suggests businesses miss out when they fail to find and promote executives with more understated styles…”(Wally Bock, Introverts can be Great Leaders). Some introverts believe that in order to be considered for a leadership position, they have to push themselves to project a more extrovert quality. This expands their comfort zone. For some introverts, they get use to it and do very well in their newly found leadership job. For others, they believe they have to get use to getting comfortable with being uncomfortable.

Introverts possess several crucial qualities that make them especially well-suited for powerful positions. For years, Introverts get passed over for leadership roles, even though new research shows they can actually get better results as leaders. Now research shows that introverts can be leaders and do a better job than what most people think. Talent managers should, therefore, not overlook introverts when identifying candidates for leadership positions; rather they should recognize what introverts can offer.

Research conducted by Professors Adam Grant at Wharton, Francesca Gino from Harvard Business School, and David A. Hoffman of UNC Kenan-Flagler Business School showed that introverted leaders often deliver better results. They’re better at letting proactive employees run with their creative ideas, while extroverts can unwittingly put their own stamp on things and not realize that other people’s ideas aren’t being heard.

Even though introverts already have their specific personality and work preferences, the following are critical ingredients for introverts to succeed as a leader.

Quiet Achievers

Quiet leadership isn’t just for those at the top, but applies across the spectrum, from the leader in all levels of management. Introverted leaders quietly command respect of those around them and draw people in. Most introverts make statements to others that are thought-provoking.

When we think of leadership, we think of the commanding, visionary person who takes charge in a time of crisis and leads his company to victory when all seems lost. Although this type of leader is what we think of most, there’s another form of leadership that ultimately may be more effective at achieving high performance. It’s called “quiet leadership”.

Great Listeners

Introverts tend to be better listeners, even though they do not reveal much about themselves. They listen to what others say and respond appropriately. Most introverts in this position are proactive instead of reactive because they think first and then respond second.

For introverts to succeed the challenges that come with being a leader, the find the recipe for success that fits for them through their unique characteristics and especially with the help of their personality and work preferences. These two alone give an introverted leader the impetus to become the leader they prefer to be.

Introverted leaders tend to listen more carefully and are more open to ideas, thoughts, opinions and suggestions. This helps when they socialize with others. Introverts prefer to observe others most of the time. This is partly how they get to know other people. They absorb and reflect on what they hear.

A professor of psychology at the University of Massachusetts says that introverts do better when managing a team of proactive members. The personality of the leader must complement the group they are managing, e.g., a dynamic and charismatic leader (extravert) may work better with “passive” members rather than with a highly functioning group whose enthusiasm may be dampened by an extravert’s enthusiasm and tendency to frequently override their ideas.

Communications

Having a crystal clear thought with regard to their vision and it gets carried through by their employees. Introverted leaders get better results from their extroverted employees.

Typically, introverts are more comfortable relating to others one-on-one instead of in large groups. When they do speak in front of large groups, they prepare ahead of time. This helps them focus on what they want to say and their self-confidence is more relaxed.

During networking events, introverted leaders prepare ahead of time with what they want to talk about with others. The preference is to ask open-ended questions instead of close-ended ones.

Making sure that you say exactly what you want to say, introverts think first before saying anything or taking any action. This is especially true when it comes to making any type of decisions. Introverts prefer to think first, weigh the facts and then make their decision. Introverts prefer to communicate in writing instead of talking.

Many introverts prefer to prepare before going into meetings. Typically, they do not like being put on the spot. Introverted leaders know this will happen at times and they prepare for these times. As much as possible, introverted leaders make meetings as short as possible. This is because some meetings take too long and many introverts get drained and so do their employees.

Introverted leaders display the unique ability of inspiring and motivating their employees to action. They convey confidence especially in things they are passionate and interested in.

Creating Extraordinary Results

Focusing in on outcomes gets more done as a result they get results. Many introverted leader make an effort to talk with their employees by walking around and asking employees for input or other questions. They act on what they head from others. In most respects, introverted leaders empower employees to be as creative and innovative as possible and to work out any problems and challenges with other co-workers.

Introverts and extroverts are both capable of doing the same work. The difference lies in the ways they approach their tasks. Quiet, introverted leaders are committed to achieving the goals they set out to do. Introverted leaders need to focus more on their strengths. This includes their analytical, problem-solving and listening skills. In a combined package, introverts are able to take advantage of their unique characteristics which allow them to become bold and outgoing with sometimes a powerhouse reputation of getting things done, and getting extraordinary results.

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